Guys, thanks for all the great messages. As i said to @hotsjf, i didn't want to be almost like a ghost admin that wasn't here enough. It's not fair on the community when people need help. I'm not completely done with you all, i will still be here but without the responsibility of messages asking why im not around when people need my help.
For any new members, my door is always open incase people need my help, my knowledge will still be useful to some degree.
On the note of my family and work...i got a promotion yesterday which means more time in work and more learning in the role but to finally have a real life position that has a chance of fast promotions up the ladder i cannot take my eye off the ball.
It's not a goodbye, it's just an "i'll see you a little less than i did before."